Love Yourself.

It is such a tiring day again. My multi-tasking abilities were put to test the whole day! I was busy cooking, mopping floors and attending to nheena's needs all day long. But then again, it is indeed a wonderful and blessed day. I chose happiness now and I will always choose it. I'm done with self-loathing and the thoughts of unfairness in this world so I just better look on the brighter side of my life and thank God for the unseen blessings that are yet to come.

But that is not going to be the topic of my blog post this mornight :) hihihi.. Though, I will be posting a parallel theme regarding that matter one of these days. Anyway, I have liked this page in Facebook entitled Plump Magazine. It is all about big and beautiful women, empowering them to become better and enlightening them to just love and accept yourself because beauty is not measured in pounds rather it is by the goodness of the heart.

And I couldn't agree more. Physical beauty falters, but the beauty of one's soul will always be unblemished and it will never waver. Too bad, real beauty is not visible to the eyes, rather it is felt and is reflected in our day to day conversations. The society has been dictating the requirements and parameters of elegance. And, that in order for you to be labeled as beautiful, you need to be skinny, fair skinned and so on and on. Apart from that, you will be compared to different girls and eventually, you'll lose and not be qualified with the standards they have placed.

So ganon na lang ba yun? I mean, should there be really physical dimensions to pass in order for you to be lovely? I believe in the individuality of each person and that everyone has this unique quality and that is their beauty. I love the quotation that goes, "What makes you different, makes you beautiful." It is not bad to be different, it is not ugliness to not look like the others, it is not a problem if we don't fit on your specifications. I am beautiful with my scarred legs, I am pretty with my morena skin, I am marvelous with my chinita, hooded eyes and most of all I am lovely with my 85 kilo weight.

Remember girls that beauty is not based on the society's dictation of it, rather it is how you are, who you are and how you carry yourself. Love, accept and enhance yourself because if you do it, everything else will follow. Love will just be around and happiness is just a distance reached by hand. Smile and don't frown, you are God's blessing, full of potentials and possibilities. Claim your beauty and be yourself. Stand up for who you are and be who you wanted to be. #BeautifulMe